Nelie,
Every time I placed a post you always replied with encouragement and support and I am very grateful and appreciative. I cannot understand why your husband would leave a caring and loving person as you at a time when you need his help the most. He absolutely has no sense of decency, caring or mercifulness.
From my own experiences as a caregiver for about a year now, it takes a lot of strength and courage to be a caregiver to a cancer patient but a real man does not cut and run, cowards do.
You are a very strong person to fight H/N cancer and breast cancer at the same time and you have the strength to overcome this and fight on.
As others have said, we are your extended family and friends and we are here to support you now and always.
Vin