Nelie,

Every time I placed a post you always replied with encouragement and support and I am very grateful and appreciative. I cannot understand why your husband would leave a caring and loving person as you at a time when you need his help the most. He absolutely has no sense of decency, caring or mercifulness.

From my own experiences as a caregiver for about a year now, it takes a lot of strength and courage to be a caregiver to a cancer patient but a real man does not cut and run, cowards do.

You are a very strong person to fight H/N cancer and breast cancer at the same time and you have the strength to overcome this and fight on.

As others have said, we are your extended family and friends and we are here to support you now and always.

Vin


CG to wife;
Jan 2005 DX SCC Tongue T2N1MO; RND surgery Mar 2005; 35 XRT and 4 cisplatin completed Jul 2005.
Dec 2006 tongue surgery, Scar tissue no cancer.
Feb 2010 neck node FNA - negative.
2010 ORN right jaw plus fracture
2015 ORN left jaw plus fracture
Feb 2016 Lower jaw reconstruction by Fibula free flap+titanium plate - Permanent G-tube
June 2016 Difficulty breathing - Permanent Trachea tube
Dec 2019 DX Cervical cancer - Stage 1 - Surgery Jan 16 2020.
15-20 esophagus/larynx dilations