Nelie, I am sorry to hear you are going through this stress. Pick up the pieces and live for YOU! I know it is a lot easier said than done, my thoughts are with you. Love, Carol p.s. New York is not that far from Baltimore, if you would ever want to hook up somewhere in the middle!

Diagnosed May 2002 with Stage IV tongue cancer, two lymph nodes positive. Surgery to remove 1/2 tongue, neck dissection, 35 radiation treatments. 11/2007, diagnosed with cancer of soft palate, surgery 12/14/07, jaw split. 3/24/10, cancer on tongue behind flap, need petscan, surgery scheduled 4/16/10
---update passed away 8-27-11---