Dear Bhavna, What you are going thru is lousy. Advice, suggestions, whether you agree or not does not change how you both feel. How does one PREPARE for the worst.We are all different emotionally, my hope for both of you is to respect each others emotions as at times they can be different.I can't offer anything that will make you feel better but my biggest mistake when my wife passed was that she was always holding out for hope while I was the realist. The true miracle is how you GROW Together from here. Take some time and take that trip you always wanted, and deal with all this crap later.People have lived a long time with what DR's describe as incurable cancer. My heart reaches out to you both hoping you find some comfort thru this very difficult time.