Judith- I will be sending many prayers to you on Wednesday. Living in the present is the best advice even though I don't always heed it. I've been married coming up on 20 years this November. I'm 42 so I've been with this man most of my adult life and I can't imagine it without him. I try not to dwell on that too much anymore. There is such a fine line between worry and planning for the future and it's hard to define. Anyway, best wishes to your and your husband-I know he'll be just fine.

Sue

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.