Judith-My husband was awake the very next day. He couldn't speak because of the trach and was extremely agitated and cranky(anyone would be). He also had a hard time with the ng tube they had put down his nose to deliver nourishment. He even went so far as to pull it out after it had been stiched in. The reason I'm telling you this is because it upset me far more than it upset him. He was in intensive care for a week and a half and then in a stepdown unit for a week. He doesn't remember much at all. They are on some intense medication and I could have used some myself. The nurses kept assuring me it was worse for myself and the rest of the family. Our children only came to see him once during the stay because they are teenagers and were truly upset seeing their dad that way. They help up wonderfully though thru this whole ordeal. Make sure you discuss any home care you may need for him. We didn't have any because my husband could get around on his own and insurance wouldn't cover it. I quit my job before his surgery so I was home to deal with it but if you work-you'll need some help.
Best regards,
Sue