If it was a wham, bam, THANK YOU, would it have been different for you Paul. For me, the respect thing really stands out because of my Japanese heritage. We lived so close to our neighbors back in the 50's I could touch their house through the window yet there was no such thing as a squabble.

Don't lose sight of the greatness here but we all really need to figure out how to coexist. We all have pretty much the same goals but much different deliveries.

I'm really sorry this happened in a way that leaves a bad taste in your mouth Paul AND Don. You guys have helped me through it when I felt the same way. I owe it to both of you to pay that back.


SCC Stage IV, BOT, T2N2bM0
Cisplatin/5FU x 3, 40 days radiation
Diagnosis 07/21/03 tx completed 10/08/03
Post Radiation Lower Motor Neuron Syndrome 3/08.
Cervical Spinal Stenosis 01/11
Cervical Myelitis 09/12
Thoracic Paraplegia 10/12
Dysautonomia 11/12
Hospice care 09/12-01/13.
COPD 01/14
Intermittent CHF 6/15
Feeding tube NPO 03/16
VFI 12/2016
ORN 12/2017
Cardiac Event 06/2018
Bilateral VFI 01/2021
Thoracotomy Bilobectomy 01/2022
Bilateral VFI 05/2022
Total Laryngectomy 01/2023