Good for you kiddo! You ARE tougher than you think....being proactive is the first step. My husband and I have 7 kids between us...all between the ages of 26 and 36. Some are actively helping out, some are dealing with this thru phone calls and emails. It's a tough situation and you will find your way smile

CG to H with SCC BOT T4N2cM0 dx 12/19/08, teeth removed pre-tx; Erbitux & RT-done 3/12/09, PEG 2/9/09-7/14/09; ND 6/16. Pet 6/12-no mets except lymph node in neck removed on 6/16. Chyle leak,2nd surg to repair. Dilate esophagus 4/15/10. Clear PET 12/17/10