Oh dear

i am sorry you and your family and especially you mum are getting such disappointing news.I think perhaps some emotional help is what you need,and someone to talk to about what is going to happen in the future,perhaps your hospital will be able to help.
liz


Liz in the UK

Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.

Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.