OP      Contributing Member (25+ posts)    Joined:  Mar 2009  Posts: 48  |    My name is Colleen, thank you all!
  I have told my mom that it is hard for me to deal with.  She tells me sometimes that she thinks I need to get over it, as a few other people have.  I swear before this I was a strong individual and could handle most everything that life threw at me.  My grandmother was sick with cancer and I took her to her doctors appointments.  For some reason with my mom I just cant do it.  i hate saying the word cant.  my sisters get so mad at me and I feel badly that they have to pick up my slack but I am truly working on it.  
  I actually just got off the phone with my sister.  My mom is better than last night.  She hasnt vomited and her fever is down.  She is just experiencing a headache. So hopefully she gets better throughout the day!
 
         
26 Mom 48 diagnosed Sep 08 Stage IV SCC full glossectomy, neck dissection traech and peg Nov 08 35 radiation treatments and 3 chemo Mar 09 mets to lungs Started Erbitux 3/09/09 06/26/09 mets to rib Stopped Erbitux 6/26/09 Start erbitux/taxol 7/06/09 Started Hospice 7/24/09 Passed away 8/09/09
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