Hi Vicky,

Welcome to the site. Sorry to hear about your Dad, but most of what you are describing is not unusual.

Please take a minute and do two things.

Start a new thread so other members can find this message. I'd hate to see it get lost, there are some very knowledgeable people here that can offer advise.

Also, please read other messages on the board and the main body of this site. They are both have great search engines and will help you in learning information. Just the FAQ questions are helpful.

Again welcome and we are glad you found this site. Knowing as much as posiible is important.

Take care,
Dinah