Donna,

If you can't vent here...where can you vent? I don't smoke, never have, can't stand cigarettes. My mom smoked since she was 13, my wife's been a closet smoker for years...I get oral cancer and both of them start lighting up like chimneys.

Both of them say the same thing..."If YOU got OC, then it can happen to anyone so f*ck it, I'm smoking!" I had to just accept that they are going to do what they want...and I'm gonna do what i want...because when it comes down to it, lifes too f*ckin short not to. C'est la vie...