Thanks everyone. I have said what I had to and that's that, I guess. I just needed to vent. Too embarrassed to discuss it outside of here...wow! that really sounds shallow, doesn't it? I don't mean to be. Love and peace to all.

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Linda!! How have you been?


Donna
CG to Mom, dx 4/25/07 with tongue cancer,T3N0,tx began 7/6/07, 31 tx's of IMRT, 8 cycles of Erbitux. Brachytherapy, surgery, left neck dissection and temp trach placed all on 9/17/07, trach removed 10/17/07. ORN of jaw, late effect of radiation symptoms. **lost my beautiful mother on 5/5/11.