Oh Donna. I am so sorry to hear. This is my worst fear for my sister. I am so afraid that she is going to start up again also. She smoked a ciggerette day of surgery!!! I even get really mad when people smoke around her. I finally got to the point that I made my point about her smoking by telling her and haven't said a word since. If she smokes yes I will be very very upset, but I told her how I felt and I guess that's all I can do. It's a hard thing to swallow. Just tell her how you feel. Maybe you will have some peace.