Christine,

We can all take heart that even stage IV OC isn't the end of the world anymore. I am amazed at how much can be done and how so many survive in spite of all the brutal treatments and life altering challenges from this "affliction."

It is rotten that you have had to give up so much in this latest recurrence. You are most fortunate to have the support of Sue. It be wonderful if we all could be able to give such practical help to each other.

Please check into the pluses and minuses of the metal bar vs fibula with your ENT and dental professionals. Although the surgery for the replacement with the bone is very complicated and the recovery time is long the results are very good. I was told by several specialists that the metal bar can present problems later. From my research I found that the long term effects were minimal. I recommend that you search our forums and the main site for more information.

With best wishes and prayers for an easy, quick and complete recovery,
Malka