Thanks to all of you for your good thoughts. We are gearing up for Tuesday. I appreciate your comments so much. Special thanks to Sue, Christine, EzJim, Patty, PeteD, Markus, and anyone else I missed. The support is fantastic. I don't know if I can do this here, but I have a blog about my husband and it links to OCF.
http://ronswife.blogspot.com
Sorry if that's inappropriate to put it here. I hope to keep it updated as we go along.
My best to all of you,
Lori

Lori, cg to H Ron, age 56.
Stage IV Oral SCC-T1N2. Tongue resected and right ND 8/05. Teeth removed, PORT, PEG, IMRT x33, Cisplatin x3. Tx ended 10/05.
Recurrence 7/08 Stage IV. Surgery 8/30/08.
2nd recur. 11/08. 2nd surgery 2/2/09.
3rd recur. 4/9/09. Erbitux wkly. 5/09-?
Ron died 6/6/09.
Lori also passed away 8/20/11, colon cancer