Thanks so much for the advice everyone. Jim and I go see his RAD Dr. tomorrow and I am planning on getting Hospice information. I thought they were there only for the end - When I think of Hospice, my only reference is from the move "The Gloaming". I'm going to miss another day of work, so that I can get some more definitive answers about this.

We had a better day today - he didn't seem as tired, however his knees buckled at one point and I thought he may have broken his back. But he sat down for a few minutes and then off again. He's incredible and I only wish that I had 1/4 of the strength that he has.

Thanks again everyone for your prayers and advice...so ready or not, Hospice, here I come...without Jim for now.

Hugs to my cyber friends!
Paula


Caregiver to Husband 50 yrs.young-non smoker/non-drinker; Stage IV - all treatments stopped August 2009
Lost the battle November 23, 2010