Paula,

When Jim is ready, hospice is very helpful. There are stages that you and he will go through in this process. Just be sure he is as comfortable and free of pain as possible. My heart goes out to Jim and you and I'm so sorry this has happened. Life can be so friggin unfair at times, just have to deal with what it gives us a day at a time. You are in my thoughts,

Nancy

Caregiver to sister Connie, dx 2005, scc tongue, 4 surgeries inc. radical left side neck dissection 7/06, 35 IMRT, and 7 cisplatin 2/07, passed away 8-11-07, 51 yrs. young, fought with courage, strength and grace, found peace on her new journey.