Just remember the thoughtlessness is THEIR problem, not yours. May not make the disappointment go away altogether but at least don't point any blame at yourself. Never know, a few might at least offer to bring over a plate or some gesture of kindness and respect. Don
Don Male, 57 - Great health except C Dec '12 DX: BOT SCC T2N2bMx, Stage 4a, HPV+, multiple nodes 1 tooth out Jan '13 2nd tooth out Tumor Board -induction TPF (3 cycles), seq CRT 4-6/2013 CRT 70gr 2x35, weekly carbo150 ended 5/29,6/4 All the details, join at http://beatdown.cognacom.com