Anne,
I hate to say this but from here on out eating becomes more like a job then a pleasure
. It is a game of what is tolerated and what is not, as you are finding out. You will find that he will be moving toward softer foods (pasta) and more bland foods.
I did not get a PEG and eventually was down to scrambled eggs, pate� pancakes and the like and even spent the two weeks after treatment on liquids only (Boost, Carnation VHC etc�) Eating was painful.
As he moves the other way after treatment, the whole process reverses itself and more and more things become edible and then even pleasurable to eat again
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The one consistent thing you will find among all oral cancer patients is the eating issue. This is a great place to come for eating suggestions and you will get a ton of responses.
Did Gordon get the PEH tube?