It's so difficult Gloria. It's like having a little child but a grown up version.
On one hand I have to look after myself as no-one else is going to do it for me but on the other it means I'm selfish by looking after my own needs first and not his. I wish I had magic wand that works wink


Heike

Working caregiver of my husband (51) Simon

03/2014 oropharyngeal cancer, stage IVB, T2N3M0, HPV 16 +
04/2014 Neck dissection - 39 lymph nodes removed, one node positive greater than 6cm, tumour in tonsil reaching into soft palette
28/04/14 begin of treatment
33 x RADS 66 Gy, 33 x chemo cisplatin 13mg each
29/04/14. pick two lines
12/06/14 finished treatment
09/ 14 Pet scan clear