Thank you for all your entries. Will head off get one.

According to specialists Simon is remarkably doing well. He's lost now 30kg and is eating / drinking the bare minimum. I guess it's up to him whether he wants to speed up recovery and looking after himself.

I, have been in a lot of pain and pushing myself too much and above all forgot to look after myself.
Now I'm struggling with degenerative arthritis in my spine, prolapsed disc and neurological pain that may cause irreparable damage to my spinal cord and legs facing spinal surgery.

To be honest my feelings are ll over the place. A bit much to take in �. Simon cancer and myself possible spinal cord damage �

Trying to keep it together. Thanks again to all of you.

Heike

Working caregiver of my husband (51) Simon

03/2014 oropharyngeal cancer, stage IVB, T2N3M0, HPV 16 +
04/2014 Neck dissection - 39 lymph nodes removed, one node positive greater than 6cm, tumour in tonsil reaching into soft palette
28/04/14 begin of treatment
33 x RADS 66 Gy, 33 x chemo cisplatin 13mg each
29/04/14. pick two lines
12/06/14 finished treatment
09/ 14 Pet scan clear