PS... Here's a tip. I put it on a separate post in case you want to try it.

Try printing out some posts you want him to read and 'accidently' leaving them someplace where it makes it appear as you did it for your benefit only. Maybe if your husband read some of the advice you were given it would wake him up. It kinda reminds me of how my children would occasionally become stubborn and not follow my directions, only to end up doing it later anyway. You know how kids hate their parents to be right. This has worked for many families over the years.

Good luck and stay strong.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile