I wouldn't go out looking for a new relationship right now. You have a lot on the table...if you meet someone and something happens then that's great. But, I would just concentrate on making yourself feeling better...Do something that makes you "happy"--for example, going to my local SPCA and taking a few dogs for a walk or petting a few others or dropping off old sheets and blankets or dog food to the shelter makes my heart sing. Do something that makes you feel "happy".
I'm trying to talk my GF into fostering a dog...We'll see how that works out.
7-16-08 age 37@Dx, T3N0M0 SCC 4.778cm tumor, left side of oral tongue, non smoker, casual drinker, I am the 4th in my family to have H&N cancer 8-13-08 left neck dissection and 40% of tongue removed, submandibular salivary gland & 14 nodes clean, no chemo, IMRTx35 11-4-08 Recovering & feeling better
