Thanks Amy! I hope can relax, and not feel so damn guilty!! I told my mom that once she is through tx's and surgery, I will take her to the shore house and we can go to the beach and sit, collect shells, watch sunrises, sunsets....or sit at the house all day.

Donna
CG to Mom, dx 4/25/07 with tongue cancer,T3N0,tx began 7/6/07, 31 tx's of IMRT, 8 cycles of Erbitux. Brachytherapy, surgery, left neck dissection and temp trach placed all on 9/17/07, trach removed 10/17/07. ORN of jaw, late effect of radiation symptoms. **lost my beautiful mother on 5/5/11.