Shar,
I echo what Nellie said, even though you aren't sure yet, it does sound encouraging.
And the fact that you are going through all of this and probably had a rough day, the fact that you were still supporting your friend really speaks volumes about the type of person you are. You are a wonderful friend, and I am sure that anyone who is lucky enough to be close to you is very grateful.
I am still praying for you.
God Bless,
Amy