Hi Sharlee -
I liked what Minnie had to say. Please know that no one understands, sympathizes, and supports you more then this group of OCF members. Kinda picture us as all arm interlocked encircling you and holding you up while you get thru this particularly hurtful situation. Hope you can feel the empathy and allow that energy to lift you thru whatever comes next. Then in the future, you will be offering your vital and "been there" advice and experience to newcomers to OCF. Please keep writing - it's also cathartic. Warmly, JaneP


Husband: 3 SCC gum and cheek cancers 2002, 2005, 2006: surgery only. Scans clear after removal of small, well differentiated, non-invasive cancers. No radiation. 4th SCC lip diagnosed 4/13/07 - in situ, removed in biopsy. More lip removed 2/8/08 - dysplasia. 2 Biopsies 3/17/09 no cancer (lichenoids)