Dear Sharlee.

Read some from these links. It may help.
Call me or PM me if you need to talk.

Petey

http://www.ola-is.org/

http://www.al-anon.org/forum.html

http://www.soberrecovery.com/links/al-anon.html

DX 3-21-07 L tongue,SCC Stage IV (T3N2MO) TX Slash/Burn/Poison Method.
***Rapid Aggressive Recurrence 8-4-07 with same DX/TX. Life does not cease to be funny when people die any more than it ceases to be serious when people laugh. Never Give Up! ****UPDATE**** Our dear friend Petey passed away, RIP 9-2-07