MarvB,

I’m sorry for your treatment delay, and it is an issue at some places! I think they’re trying to keep it a certain time period, but don’t want to quote the exact time, maybe 30 days. I think I’ve waited longer! There are other factors involved, and hopefully you’re kept in that time frame.

Pain is often a sign of the cancer or surgery, even treatment, and disrupts your appetite. I did my best to alleviate this, besides telling my doctor, taking opioid pain meds, otc oral care products, brushing with a soft toothbrush, eating soft foods or just drinking nutritional drinks. Usually treatment alleviated the pain, but as you did, tell the doctor, and staff, everything.

I hope you have help at home coping with everything? Besides coming here, there are local support groups and professional counseling to help deal with this cancer. I can say you’re not alone here!

I hope this helps, and good luck!