Hi Kristen, Thanks for the compliment but I don't see myself as brave. Being brave would require having the opportunity to run from a situation and not running. I don't have that option so I see myself as someone put in a bad situation with no promising way out. I just picked the option I thought gave me the best chance for a somewhat normal life.

I know what you mean about things people say. I think the one that bothers me most is when they say "I know what you're going through". Another is' We're going through this with you". I know they're probably well intentioned but it still upsets me to hear it. That probably says more about me than them.

So, you live in Alabama. It's one of our favorite states. For the last three years my wife and I spend some of the winter months in Gulf Shores. Last year, we divided our time between Sarasota, Fl and Gulf Shores. We planned to go back to both places this year but that isn't looking too promising at this point. However, we haven't cancelled our reservations on either of the condos yet. Things could turn around.

Again, thanks for the words of encouragement. I hope things are going well for you. I can see that you've been through a lot.

Marv