I was told a few days ago by the surgeon that they were going to have to remove up to 60% of my tongue, followed by radiation. I told him that was acceptable but that I didn't want any more than that removed. I got a call from his office today telling me that they reviewed my tests again and that they may have to do a near full glossectomy. I told them no. My question is, has anyone on here had or know of someone who had radiation and chemo before surgery to shrink the tumor first or whose had radiation and chemo with no surgery? I know that having the near total glossectomy is my best chance to live but, to me, it' would not be the quality of life I can accept. Maybe I'm not as strong as some of the others out here but that's how I feel. So, if anyone has had radiation and or chemo without the surgery or prior to the surgery, I would like to hear from them. Thank You