thank you everyone. I really don't want to just lay down and take it but I know there is no success in the normal standards. I will look into my trial options and anything else. I will fight. I will enjoy my last few months years or whatever I've got. I hope I get a long time. I am not sure if there is a proven way to at least extend life while not making yourself sick and not able to enjoy it.

Jeff - 41yrs old/previous smoker
SCC buccal mucosa/jaw bone Stage 4
Nov '14 Partial Mandibulectomy with fibula flap, neck dissection
Jan '15 Rads x35 Cisplatin x2
Apr '15 PET/CT concerning area Follow up MRI no mass.
July '15 PET/CT 11mm nodule in right lower lobe the lung.
Oct '15 PET/CT right lung nodule 3cm mass also new left lung nodules
Nov '15 erbitux
Mar '16 CT tumors are growing again, waiting on next step
June'16 hospice had 3 Opdivo infusions trying to regain health