[quote]The funny thing is some of these women have never contacted me since either. I think they are embarrassed for disappearing and don't know what to say now. I have to say I harbor some hurt still so haven't contacted them either, and we are a year and a half out of tx!![/quote]Have you considered reaching out to them? I am starting the journey and only a few have sort of gone deaf but I guess my innate sense of good leads me to try to reach out as I know I have been on the other side too -- not knowing what to say to ppl and it was surely not because I did not care, just too aqward or loss of words.
Sure seems like good friendship is worth a short call or note.
don