Anita,
one of the most beautiful things my husband received was a whole packet of children's drawings. One of our frieds is an oncology nurse who lost her husband to cancer. She remarried, her blended family includes 6 children. She had all of her kids make get will drawings, and sent them to arrive the week after my husband was done with therapy. The most touching were from the ones that had lost their father. But, my goodness, there are children who are being raised right!
Maria

CG to husband - SCC Tonsil T1N2M0 HPV+ Never Smoker
First symptoms 7/2010, DX 12/2010
TX 40 IRMT (1.8 gy) + 10 Cetuximab
PET Scans 6/2011 + 3/2012 clear, 5 year physical exam clear; chest CT's clear of cancer. On thyroid pills. Life is good.