I think with technology there is no excuse for friends of family not to make contact and check in on someone dealing with illness, especially a life threatening disease. Making a weekly or fortnightly phone call to a patient�s partner or carer is easy if friends aren�t comfortable about visiting.

When my speech was mumble jumble and I could barely communicate face to face or via telephone receiving text messages or emails from friends or family lifted my spirits.


46 yrs:
Apr 07-SCC 80% entire tongue removed,T4N1M0
Neck/D,Jaw Split, Trache 2 ops,PEG 3.5yrs
30 x rad,6 x Cisplatin,
30 x HBO
Apr'08- flap Recon + ORN Mandibulectomy
(hip bone to reconstruct jaw)
Oct'08 1 Plate out-jaw
Mar'09 Debulk flap
Sep'09/Jan&Nov'10/Feb&Jun'11/Jan&Jul'12/Oct'13/April'14-More surgery