Aimlee - Your Mom IS close to you and she would want you to feel feel better even if the sign is a very little butterfly. I've been skeptical, too - about many things but I usually find out that trusting one's own inner feelings very often is the correct one even if it's not "scientific". A French philosopher, Blaise Pascal (also physicist and mathematician) once said "Le coeur a see raisons que la raison ne conna�t point" - which translates to: "The heart has its reasons, which reason does not know". Follow your heart, Aimlee.