Oh Sal, he sounds sooo much like Ron. Check out my postings fo what I went thru! He was sooo damn mean and things he said to me were hateful BUT I am sorry I didn't keep my mouth shut after awhile AND I took away the pain meds that caused his mean demeaner. Oxycotin. NO MORE! He was so mad at me. They gave him this crap in Pain Management! How stupid, he don't need that he does just fine with his Vicodin. Just cuz he took it more times a day than he would the time release Oxy...No Way no more! Now he's doing really good, he does tend to stay by himself a bit vegging with the TV with his programs. But he is very nice to me now. So yes it has to be meds. It will pass. I've cried many times in the shower...but I wouldn't let him see me cry, I did once and he made fun of me in one of his anger moments. I said NO MORE! Either I didn't say anything to him and ignored him OR I spouted mean stuff right back at him! Now he is a happy man once again!
