I can relate to your husbands' desire to be alone. There were times that I wanted to be alone too just because it was too much work to try to be nice when I felt like I was about to crack into a hundred pieces.

Take the time today to do something that you'll enjoy! Enjoy the sunshine and the smell of the air - do something just for you! He's just trying to put himself back together right now and there are parts of recovery when he needs some time alone. It doesn't mean he doesn't love and appreciate you!

Take good care,


Jennifer (39)
02/10 SCCa Tongue & Base, HPV-
03/10 Partial Glossectomy & ND 11/10 Revision due to additional nodes 12/20-2/2/11 IMRT & concommitant chemo 2/11 PEG in 3/11 PEG out
Back at work and feeling good 03/24/11!
12/20/11 - 9 month f/u PET/CT - all clear!