Thank you Eric..your words are most comforting..especially right now. The anger that he has is just beginning to rise to the surface..he tells me "I am moody and don't want anyone around.." and he has suggested that I go and spend the day some place else because he wants time to himself..so I will do that, hopefully he will remember that I too have suffered.

Yes it is difficult to be a caregiver to someone you love, very difficult, especially without saying anything.
I am going to check out the island paradise ~ most definitely need one right now : )