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I too have written posts sharing problems with my husband's anger and change in his personality this past year since his reoccurance. I am happy to say he has slowly returned to a person I recognize as my husband. I contribute that to him weaning himself off of the depression medication he was on, finally getting a scan that shows no sign of cancer and starting to eat again. He was told that he had to have surgery to move his PEG to a new location in Dec. if he didn't have it removed. That was all he needed to hear, he started to eat and realized he could eat more things than he expected. I had also realized I needed to stop hounding him regarding his eating, status of med issues etc. He also spends a lot of time alone on his farm and comes back more relaxed. It does get better but I would not have believed that 6 months ago! Hang in there.

CG 2 Emmett,7/09 DX SCC rt tongue. T2N1M0, 1 node, marg neg.4/10 PET/CT clear, 9/10 C back. 10/10 Rad hemi, 2 tmrs mod diff. resec flr of mth. Flap 4 nodes/w/ext cap. 11/10 Peg, CX3 HD, 30 rad. 1/31 & 3/21 6/11/11 - PET/CT "activity" 9/11-all Clear. 12/11 peg out. 2/15 still all clear! 9/14 Prostate cancer treated with pencil beam proton therapy, best radiation experience. Keep it in mind as a treatment option for all tumors that can be seen including head and neck.