Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | Sal, congrats to you both on finishing the treatments! The next 2 or 3 weeks will still be difficult. Then your husband will slowly begin to feel more human. Sorry to hear he is being so miserable to you. Im sure it hurts your feelings so much after caring for him for weeks. Its not right. I can understand how horrible your husband feels and its pretty easy to be snappy when at the end of tx. Hang in there it will get better in a couple weeks. ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive |