Suez - I think that Nate's post just gave us a look into what it feels like to be facing such a difficult decision to make. Ron has probably had the same thoughts of: "Well I already got it, so what the hell? " and " Who gives a crap, I would rather be drunk anyways." I do hope that Ron can find the strength someplace to do the same, but ultimately, it is his choice. And I hope that you can find the strength to take care of YOU through all of this!
Nate - Great post! Keep the videos and updates coming!

Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)