Hi tammy I've been trying to say that to him and keep him positive x I sent him your reply yesterday to spur him on and he said thanks just knowing that others are going and been through the same will help him along xx he's very swollen around his jaw and because he had his lymph nodes took it hard to drain the fluid x he's not in much pain but I'm dreading the radiation x he's had it before 22 years ago he had lymphoma in his neck but he a lot older now and had been through a lot more x how sad to even have cancer once never mind twice x had to tell him his cat passed away today it was 19 and don't think it could cope without him :(( sad as that's all he had he doesn't have a wife or partner but said he doesn't want another animal xx