Amy,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. She was an inspiration to me with her posts. I would often see her on my buddy list for e-mail late at night in your part of the country. She and I shared similuar type of oral cancer and surgery. She was always positive in her posts and encouraging to all. She was extremely proud of her "girls". She loved to share her experiences and fond memories of time spent on the beach with her family. We had planned to meet when I traveled to Virginia, but I haven't gone yet. She was really interested about life "in the West" (Arizona) and I was about life in Virginia. I will miss her. My best to all of you.

Hacklene