Hi Lisa,

That certainly wasn't what you needed. It seems like this chaplain is one of those people that is in the wrong job. We sometimes forget that everyone is human, even the clergy, but there is no excuse for being mean.

I think you might be better off finding someone new to meet with. Someone that is understanding of the situation that you and Bill are in. Why subject yourself to his poor counseling? I would cancel that appointmant.

Good luck to both you and Bill.

Jerry


Jerry

Retired Dentist, 59 years old at diagnosis. SCC of the left lateral border of the tongue (Stage I). Partial glossectomy and 30 nodes removed, 4/6/05. Nodes all clear. No chemo no radiation 18 year survivor.

"Whatever doesn't kill me, makes me stronger"