I never thought I would be getting counseling- but tomorrow, my fiance and I will both be going. I talked to his radiologist today and explained some of the conversations and feelings that we both are having and she suggested it. I am nervous and dont know what to expect, but I think it will help us both deal with the hurt and anger that we feel at this situation and hopefully will bring us closer together. A lot of the intimate aspects have left and that has been hard for us to deal with- thank goodness we have been able to hold on, though some lengthy discussions and crying sessions have occurred... Has anyone else been to counseling?