I am caregiver to my husband. He has completed 16 of his 39 IMRT treatments. He was doing very well, but seems to be going downhill fast. Today he went for his treatment and they would not give it to him, the doctor said he was beat up enough. He lost 8 lbs. in 2 days. He has developed a rash from the ethyol. Leon is now talking about quitting the IMRT that he just can't take it anymore. He said he is willing to take his chances. I don't know what to do or how to handle this besides pleading with him to just hang in there, its not forever. I don't know how to get through to him. I'm hoping he is just at a very low point today and tomorrow will be different. I will do anything to make him feel better, but I just don't know what to do. Everyone here seems to upbeat,how do you get yourselves to be like that?