Thanks Michelle. I appreciate your input. Unfortunately things in the oral sex dept. remain the same. It might be childish on my part but I'm not going down until he does. smile Unfortunately if you read the post I put up yesterday he is having some gum/jaw issues at the moment so I am not approaching the subject for now. In the grand scheme of things it probably isn't a big deal and does make me feel guilty whining about it when he has been through so much and continues to deal with issues post treatment.

Wanda (47) caregiver to husband John (56) age at diag.(2009)
1-13-09 diagnosed Stage IV BOT SCC (HPV+)
2-12-09 PEG placed, 7-6-09 removed
Cisplatin 7 weeks, 7 weeks (35) IMRT
4-15-09 - treatment completed
8-09,12-09-CT Scans clear, 4-10,6-11-PET Scans clear
4-2013 - HBO (30 dives) tooth extraction
10-2019 - tooth extraction, HBO (10 dives)
11-2019 - Left lateral tongue SCC - Stage 2