I truly believe it is unfair to judge her! I do know that I have said some thing's in my life that are totally taken the wrong way. She may be frightened as she has two young children & who expected this to happen. I feel sorry as they have no privacy & I do know I totally needed mine when dealing through this illness.She may be angry & I don't blame her one bit. My first diagnosis was simply a bacteria infection. Let us show some kindness & compassion, after all that is what we are here for.Plus they are going through the first stages of treatment & I do know I was a basket case & my caregiver hubby had enough to deal with. Money does not set us apart when it comes to cancer, It is still the same shit for all of us!