Hi,
Thanks for the advice. Our old doctor is a bit distant, but there is a new younger one who listens and cares. He is very much in demand but if I can get Martin to see him he might be able to help. The thing is Martin says our kitchen is like a pharmacy and his belly rattles with pills. I am not sure how he would respond to more pills. I will try though. Funny enough today was good day for Martin. Well until he got grumpy on the phone. I finally made to my much needed lunchtime Pilates class, I was tense and crooked and had lower back pain so it helped. Mid class my cell phone rang and I ignored it, I was lying flat on my back with my legs in the air and a weighted ball between my knees. After the third consecutive ring, I got worried and thought he had injured himself, so I answered to "Ah finally, you decided to answer your phone, you never answer your ** phone". When I asked if he was ok he said yes he was bored, so I told him I was in the middle of Pilates, and I called after the class.
I helped him drill some holes in the ceiling and hold some boards up.
He seems better but not talkative. I will see how he is tomorrow, and suggest seeing the GP.
Thanks


Girlfriend to Martin 49 years old at diagnosis
Diagnosed with SCC unknown primary June 2008.
Cancer found in single node Stage N2A (3 to 6cm).
Tonsilectomy 16th june, Radical modified neck dissection left side 30th june.
30 TX radiotherapy ended 9th October
First comparative study scan came back clear