hi,

Sorry about my rant above.
Martin is now very depressed. he seems to be sleeping constantly and has no will to get up. I try and try, but nothing seems to motivate him. i took last week off thinking he could supervise my decorating attempts and mostly spend some time together. But in 9 days he was up only 2 days. Then when he realises the day is finished he gets annoyed and says he wasted a day. The dental hygienist suggested that he should talk to someone, but he refuses and says he doesn'y believe in that mamby pamby stuff. I wake him up and he says go away I am getting up in a minute and gets grumpy. So I leave alone then try again an hour later and same again...
On saturday it was bright outside, so I tried to make him come out to sit in the garden as we have our first crocuses out, so the garden is starting to look pretty, and I thought planting new bulbs and get some air might sound attractive, but he didn't get up.
I have absolutely no idea what to do. I want to help, but I don't know how and he won't let anyone in.
C